Many women happily accept absolutely all compliments from their partner.
But there are phrases that only “pretend” to be praise.
Having heard these remarks, a representative of the fair sex, of course, should not be indignant.
It is still worth thanking a man for a compliment. But there is no need to melt with delight.
On the contrary, you need to be wary and understand the true motives of your other half.
So, what exactly are these flattering words we are talking about?
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At first glance, there is nothing wrong with a man praising his partner for her skills in household chores and everyday issues.
But you need to analyze your partner's behavior. If he doesn't help his other half at all and doesn't give her the opportunity to take a break from household chores, then you should be wary.
Perhaps the man has this goal: to secure the woman’s status as “housewife” so that only she can clean the apartment and do other household chores.
It is possible that the husband is trying to achieve the following: for his wife to forget about her professional activities and personal ambitions and devote herself only to domestic matters.
"Well done, you are so obedient!"
Such a phrase may indicate an attempt by a man to make his companion even more submissive and dependent.
"You don't usually..., but now..."
"You coped with this difficult task. Well done!" - this is a good compliment from a man.
"You usually can't handle such simple tasks, but now you've managed to do it all. Miracles!" is a bad compliment. It's possible that the guy is trying to humiliate his girlfriend and devalue her achievements.
Earlier we told you how to fall in love with your partner again .