Often girls who consider themselves good have to endure the bitterness of parting for reasons unknown to them. However, if you dig deeper into the essence of the issue, everything falls into place.
You can be incredibly good as a person, but still suffer failures on the personal front.
The thing is that success in a relationship cannot always be explained from a logical point of view.
It happens that a partner is attracted to negative character traits that would not be present in a nice girl.
Therefore, you shouldn’t beat yourself up when a relationship breaks up, you shouldn’t engage in self-digging – it’s not about you.
Let's look at 7 common reasons.
Degree of self-confidence
Good girls are usually insecure and constantly need an extra dose of attention and care.
It is difficult for them to decide on a reckless act; everything is planned years in advance, there is no room for impromptu action.
There is nothing wrong with such a character, however, dominant type men quickly get tired of such people and try to find a partner with a sparkle in their eyes.
Social circle
Partners in a couple cannot live completely separately - they will have to enter into mutual contact with friends and relatives.
A man may even develop a less than ideal attitude towards people close to you. This will, one way or another, be extrapolated to you.
The partner will wonder if he knows you so well, since you communicate with people who are unpleasant to him. Rejection of the partner's social circle often becomes the cause of conflicts and subsequent breakups.
Reluctance to marry
Men do not want to tie themselves down with marriage and perceive the girl only as a lover or temporary partner.
Even if you are the best girl on the planet, no one will force a man to marry. The times when marriages were created by parental orders have long since sunk into oblivion.
No trust
Trust is a basic thing for every relationship. If there is no trust, then there is no future for the relationship.
And personal qualities have nothing to do with it. Therefore, partners are advised to learn to trust each other from the very beginning.
Tell only the truth and nothing but the truth.
It happens that a man has had an unsuccessful experience of relationships with the opposite sex. The main task of a girl is to show that she will be the one who will become the first and main victory for a man on the personal front.
Lack of common interests
Partners cannot spend all their time in bed or simply remain silent. They need to communicate with each other in order to establish a certain basis for their own relationship.
If there are no similar interests, the couple will soon stop communicating. Personal qualities do not play a role here either. There is your type and not your type. With your type of man, you will chat incessantly, and with another - look for a topic for conversation.
A man's social circle
Perhaps the man's family and friends see you as a threat. They will set him against you, willingly or unwillingly. Rejection from a man's loved ones, unfortunately, is not uncommon.
Career envy
Good girls easily find the right job with earnings. A man who is unsettled in life and earns little will not be satisfied with such a situation, so he may even initiate a breakup for this reason.
Try to develop together with your partner. If you see some of the points listed above, then it is worth thinking about.
Earlier we talked about signs that problems in relationships arise because of a woman’s fears.
