Healthy relationship experts have calculated that the ideal age difference between a man and a woman is 3-5 years.
At the same time, experts left the possibility for exceptions to the rules.
The question remained open as to why men and women continue to choose partners much older or younger than themselves.
From the position of elders
The older partner chooses a younger companion not only because youth is fresh and beautiful.
Mainly, such a choice allows you to rise above yourself, above your partner, or to exert a certain influence on your partner.
From the perspective of the younger generation
Here everything is much simpler. Young people find the older generation more attractive due to their experience and status.
From a woman's point of view
If a woman chooses an older man, then there is a possibility that in the past she lacked paternal love and care, which already indicates a problem.
Wanting to feel protected, a woman chooses an older man.
From a man's point of view
Here everything is similar, but only the other way around. If a young man lacked motherly love, then he consciously looks for a woman older than himself.
And here desires often coincide, since an older woman may look for a younger man, because she is used to constantly taking care of someone.
Therefore, it cannot be said that unequal marriages pursue the only goal - wealth and status enhancement. There are many nuances here that may require the intervention of a specialist.
Earlier we talked about how to interest a man .
