When communicating with their elderly parents, not all people choose their words carefully.
It seems that the closest person can understand and forgive everything, but this is not entirely true.
Therefore, it is worth remembering 10 phrases that are definitely unacceptable to say to your elderly parents.
"You're already old, so you won't understand."
This phrase suggests that age becomes a barrier to understanding, which can lead to feelings of helplessness and loss of dignity in parents.
"You always make mistakes"
Constant reminders of shortcomings can increase feelings of inadequacy and depression in older parents.
"You're too old for this."
This phrase can be perceived as a deprivation of paternal or maternal care and attention, which will negatively affect self-esteem.
"Don't interfere in the affairs of youth"
The attitude that older parents have no right to express their opinions or participate in modern life can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness.
"You're too old to learn anything new."
Denying opportunities to learn and grow can greatly undermine older adults' self-esteem and confidence.
"You forget everything"
Being reminded of memory problems can increase feelings of helplessness and fear of losing control. Memory problems in old age are not uncommon, but it is always worth being rational.
"You've become so tough and unpleasant."
Criticism of personality and character can cause serious emotional trauma and increase conflicts in relationships.
"You're not the same as you used to be."
This phrase can cause a feeling of loss of identity and anxiety about losing one's place in life. Older people are well aware that their habits and basic characteristics are different.
"You do everything too slowly."
The hint of loss of physical or mental abilities can lead to feelings of helplessness and fear of becoming a burden to loved ones.
"We don't need you anymore"
Denying your importance and role in the family can cause deep feelings of loneliness, helplessness and alienation. This phrase can be called one of the most cruel and no one can forgive it.
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