When starting a conversation about the reasons for male irritation, it is worth noting that men in relationships see themselves as leaders and are confident that they have the right to dictate their opinion in the family.
Sometimes this behavior is justified, because in some matters men are indeed more competent than women.
However, more often than not, women have more convincing arguments.
Men do not hide their irritation when they do not have enough arguments in an argument with a woman, but admitting defeat in an argument or giving in means demonstrating weakness. Let's consider the following situations that simply drive men crazy.
Mother-in-law "climbs" into the house
When the wife's "beloved" mother comes to visit, the cozy and familiar house suddenly becomes crazy.
The outwardly benevolent, but irrepressible, hyperactive mother-in-law seizes power in the house.
A man can't find his mug, children stop listening to their dad, and a sweet and meekly obedient wife suddenly and miraculously turns into an exact copy of her omnipresent mother.
Losing control over their wards and subordinates, men become irritated over trifles, trying to express their protest to the new usurper in the family with their behavior.
The son-in-law subconsciously feels that competing for the first place of the actual owner with an experienced and, undoubtedly, more useful woman in running the household and raising children is a disastrous and sometimes humiliating occupation, but he is not going to give up the primacy without a fight.
The minor quarrels that arise quickly reach a climax - as a result, the relationship between the mother-in-law and son-in-law is reduced to formal English politeness.
"I don't understand what you want!"
This phrase is said by men after several years of marriage.
It would seem that the spouses have already learned each other by heart, know all the habits, advantages and disadvantages, learned to find compromises. But! The wife begins to show some incomprehensible discontent, becomes irritable, begins to be jealous for no reason.
Such a change in the climate in personal relationships undoubtedly disturbs the prosperous and measured life of men.
Not understanding that a woman sometimes needs to refresh her feelings, to show her love and affection, men become irritated and seek understanding in their circle of friends.
"Don't touch my things"
A man is a grown-up boy who adores his "grown-up" toys (cars, computers, etc.). He creates his own microworld, where he can enthusiastically devote himself to his favorite activity - painting and repairing his beautiful car or decorating his favorite computer-"hardware".
Any intrusion of a woman, even a beloved one, into his harmonious little world makes him nervous and destroys all the charm of this secret transformation into a child engrossed in play.
Note that another man's interest in his favorite activity or subject will make your chosen one feel proud, and he will most likely begin to brag about his achievements or the quality of his favorite subject.
But a woman is a different creature, incapable of appreciating such attachment to things.
The man begins to get annoyed by the condescending and negligent attitude towards his “toys” and especially by the fact that someone else touched them, i.e. “played with them.”
Earlier we told you how to quickly win over a new acquaintance .
