Relationships are often sorted out on emotions, and emotions and feelings are different things.
Therefore, when you get excited, you can say something like this without thinking about the consequences at all. You will have to clean up the consequences of the quarrel for a very long time, if your partner still has the strength to come to terms with what you heard.
Experts have named three taboo phrases that are best forgotten if you value your relationship.
"You always..."
The continuation may be different. For example:
- do as you please;
- you think only about yourself;
- you avoid making a decision.
And so on and so forth. And it doesn't matter whether the word used is "always", "never", "constantly" or something else.
Each such option crosses out everything that was done for you earlier and excludes alternative options, turning the relationship into continuous negativity, darkness and nightmare.
"You don't care..."
Let's not come up with a continuation of why your partner doesn't care and what he doesn't care about. It's not a fact that this is how it seems to you.
However, by using the phrase, one of the parties tries to accuse the other half of insensitivity, indifference, alienation, turning themselves into a victim of circumstances.
"It's better without you"
An alternative would be the classic phrase about your whole life being ruined. However, time passes and people realize that everything wasn't so bad.
But a word is not a sparrow - it undermines trust. The partner feels unnecessary, and does not see the need for further reconciliation.
It is almost impossible to build a relationship without quarrels and scandals. But if you value them, think about how your words and phrases can be interpreted by your other half.
Earlier we talked about why your partner is not happy with your success .
