How not to behave on a first date so that it does not turn out to be the last: advice for women and men

26.03.2024 22:54

On the first date, both parties can often be nervous. There is still a fear of not being liked by the new acquaintance, and there may also be a fear of making the wrong choice.

Therefore, you should remember some rules before the meeting so that the date goes smoothly and the impression remains pleasant.

First, you need to decide on a location. For safety reasons, the first meeting should take place in a public place.

Next, you need to think about your image.

Usually you want to wear the best at once. But you need to think about appropriateness. You are unlikely to want to walk in the park in uncomfortable shoes.

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The outfit should be neat and comfortable.

In addition, it is worth remembering that it is advisable to abstain from alcohol, otherwise you can easily ruin the whole impression.

You should think about the topics for dialogue in advance. You should not touch on sensitive or too personal topics (income level, former partners).

It is also important to understand that excitement is always present at such events.

We must not forget that the other person is also shy and worried, which means that all responsibility for the date cannot be shifted onto someone else.

Psychologists recommend taking the event lightly and not attaching any fateful significance to it.

Previously, we talked about how to deal with anxiety in relationships.

Olga Kotova Author: Olga Kotova Internet resource editor