Choosing cold and unavailable partners in relationships with the opposite sex is a completely understandable phenomenon.
They say that this is what dependent people or people who do not value themselves do. They often idealize, are constantly searching, adjust and are afraid of being alone.
Experts have named 3 reasons why people choose unavailable partners in relationships with the opposite sex.
Self-esteem
Because of low self-esteem, these people believe that love must be earned, and no one will love them the way they are.
That's why they consider cold and unavailable partners to be exactly what they deserve.
Upbringing
Perhaps a person was instilled with certain values and ideas about relationships from childhood.
The reason may also be overprotection, which replaced trusting contact with parents in childhood. All this can push to search for similar partners.
Storm of emotions
Emotional people with predictable partners may find it boring. And with a "cold" partner, a dependent personality type behaves like an obsessive.
However, experts warn that such mood swings are mistakenly perceived as some kind of feelings.
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a man loves his ex .
