Many girls and women make big mistakes in their personal relationships and then wonder: "Why did he leave for another? Am I not the fairest, the most rosy and whitest in the world?" Maybe that was the case once. Why do people leave for others?
When he met you on your first date: you were glowing from within, your eyes were shining, you were wearing your best dress, you were smelling of delicate perfume - that's how he fell in love with you.
You started dating, and when you realized that you had found each other in this huge world, becoming two halves, you started living together and got married.
“The boat of love crashed into everyday life,” said Mayakovsky and shot himself.
It's an exaggeration, but that's how it happens.
When cohabitation begins, cleaning, cooking, washing and many different household nuances make a woman forget that she should always be in shape.
And "love me as I am" in this case will not play the best role. Why should your husband love you unkempt, untidy, in worn-out clothes, not taking care of yourself?
After all, there are so many beautiful ladies around, with sparkles in their eyes and alluring tight-fitting outfits. Yes, perhaps he loves you truly, as a family member, but we have no power to change our instincts.
Men are mostly polygamous, they must, by their nature, fertilize as many females as possible, and only moral principles and public morality hold them back.
Not all of them, of course.
Many husbands cheat on their wives, hiding it from them, thus saving both their family and their wife's psyche. But those who don't particularly care about secrecy still give themselves away, and then the wife begins to blame her man exclusively for everything.
There are women who also do housework, not everyone has the opportunity to hire a cook or a cleaner, but they look gorgeous. They buy themselves silk robes with erotic necklines, slippers like wonderful high-heeled shoes, their hairstyles are impeccable, and their hair is pinned up with jewelry.
What husband would want to look at another woman if his beloved, standing at the stove, looks like a Hollywood actress?
And you can’t count the number of men who returned to their abandoned wives, who literally didn’t give a damn about themselves, when it dawned on the woman that if she returned to the image that her husband once fell in love with, then no rivals would be scary to her.
After all, men are like children - they love everything beautiful: cars, houses and, of course, femme fatales. And what prevents a wife from turning herself into a beauty, and not crying about what a bastard her husband is, leaving her, and she worked so hard for him for so many years.
Love is created for happiness, not for showdowns and clarifications about who did more nasty things to whom. It is not far from divorce. Therefore, if you find yourself in such a situation, look in the mirror, make yourself beautiful and forgive your husband.
And admit to yourself honestly that if your husband came home from work dirty, unshaven, with grease and oil stains on his shirt, would he excite you? Would you want to make love to such a "prince"? Of course not, if you have even a drop of pride.
Earlier we wrote about why a man texts other women.
