Every woman strives to build a strong and harmonious relationship with her gentleman.
But you can often see how a happy couple after a short period of time begins to quarrel loudly, accuse each other of sins. As a result, the couple breaks up.
Why does this happen... What mistakes does a woman make when building a relationship with a chosen man? Let's look into this in detail.
Let's highlight the main mistakes women make.
1. Waiting for the weather to improve.
You can easily wait like this for a couple of decades. You go on dates, smile sweetly, you both seem to like each other, but the guy promises to call and disappears from sight. And you have to wait.
Yes, fairy tales teach that beautiful princesses are waiting for a prince to appear. But in reality, you will have to figure out why members of the opposite sex run away from you. Maybe you should change your image, work on your posture and figure, take up a career or hobby...
Carefully analyze what can repel men in you, start working on it. Because without efforts on your part, positive changes in the form of the appearance of a worthy gentleman will not happen.
2. Believes that he can fix his partner.
It is worth saying right away that the "savior" syndrome will not lead to anything good. Remember that it is impossible to "pull" an alcoholic, drug addict or gambler out of addiction without efforts on his part. Therefore, if he could not cope with this "disease" before meeting you, then it is better not to even start such a relationship.
Think about what attracts you to men who “just need your help and support.” What you feel when you’re around them.
Does a feeling of being needed and in demand arise? Then, perhaps, it is worth thinking not about a relationship with such a man, but about getting additional education and building a successful career.
After all, such a responsible and hardworking person is capable of achieving great heights. This will “close” his need for being needed and in demand.
3. The woman constantly proves who is in charge in the relationship.
One of the most common mistakes of a modern woman. Ladies of the current era are used to achieving everything themselves, controlling the processes and actions in their lives.
This is why it turns out that when building a relationship with a man, a modern lady mechanically tries to “suppress” him and start commanding him.
After all, then the possibility is excluded that the gentleman could hurt her or do something stupid that the woman would have to spend a long time and effort to correct.
But men do not like such relationships. Therefore, when a woman tries to control them, they begin to perceive her not as a "fragile and tender princess", but as an enemy who has encroached on their rights and freedoms.
Therefore, women will have to learn not only to defend their point of view, but also to learn the art of compromise with their loved one.
4. The woman goes to extremes.
Being constantly "cold" or being constantly "available" are two extremes that men do not like. Yes, coldness from a beautiful woman can provoke the excitement of a hunter, but not for everyone.
More often than not, "cold" is a turn-off because for men it is a sign of snobbery, self-confidence and psychological problems inside a woman. And men don't want to solve problems (especially difficult ones).
Availability is also good within certain limits. Because if you are constantly available, you can create the impression of a "priestess of love" and a frivolous young lady who can simply be lured and she "will agree to everything."
Therefore, in a relationship it is important to maintain a certain balance that will allow a woman not to lose her dignity and mystery and at the same time not to be known as a “night butterfly” among men.
