Many women aged 30+ adequately assess their achievements and actively correct the mistakes they made. And all this thanks to their vitality, experience and years of life.
Fate has already managed to teach all these ladies several important lessons, which they have successfully learned.
What kind of lessons are these?
1. Work must satisfy a woman both materially and morally.
Adults realize that life is fleeting. This is why everyone wants to live a decent life, and that is why they work 10-12 hours a day.
This is the only way to get a decent salary.
Often, all women who work hard are accompanied by constant stress, which breaks and oppresses their family.
If your job has become a drudgery that deprives you of your personal life, then you should think about quitting. Don't cling to a profession that you don't like. Don't cling with both hands to a position that deprives you of weekends and the opportunity to spend time with your loved ones.
Some representatives of the fairer sex turn their favorite business into a way to earn money. They are all happy because they can immerse themselves in a hobby and get a monetary reward for it. Think: maybe you also have one such hobby?
If yes, then you are obliged to try your luck.
2. Love feelings will fade away sooner or later.
Yes, it is sad, but even the strongest union can fall apart in an instant.
Has your relationship finally run its course? Don't try to save it against common sense. Don't crawl on your knees before your chosen one, don't beg him to stay. Instead, remember your personal qualities, pride, and self-respect.
In a marriage where one loves and the other suffers, there will never be an idyll. Do you really want to humiliate yourself?
If you now come to terms with the inevitable separation and put an end to it, you will increase your chances of meeting a new man.
Analyze your negative experiences so that your next marriage will be successful and long-lasting.
3. The female figure will undergo significant changes over time.
All people are unique, inimitable. And each person has special external data.
Don't waste your time on endless body improvement. Don't constantly think about how your waist, butt, chest and face are far from ideal.
You are special, there is no other woman like you in the whole world!
Accept yourself, love your flaws and strengths. Yes, some of your flaws will become more noticeable with age, but there is no getting away from it. Remember: a lady who recognizes her pros and cons feels easy and free. She quickly sets goals for herself and successfully achieves them.
4. The accumulated funds will serve you well in the future.
You need to start saving money now. If you save a decent amount over several years, you will make your future life much easier. You will have stability and confidence.
Don't wait until retirement, take care of your financial safety cushion in advance. As they say, money is never superfluous.
Don't even doubt it: the money you put aside will help you feel independent. And most importantly, you will have a choice.
5. Desires and dreams should always be there, regardless of circumstances and age.
Women cannot enjoy life to the fullest due to various little things. Most ladies over 30 stop daydreaming. They devote all their hours, days, weeks and months to arranging their daily life, work and family.
Love yourself, appreciate every day of your life. And one more important point: do not forget about your desires. Make a detailed list.
Include all your small and big dreams in it. If at least one of them comes true, your level of happiness will increase.
Do you know what smart women do regularly? They ask themselves these questions:
- "Am I happy with everything in my life?"
- "Do I like the world around me?"
- "Which direction am I heading?"
- "What do I want to change in my life?"
Remember your needs and dreams, no matter what. You are not obligated to take care of others until old age, sacrificing yourself.
If someone or something is currently preventing you from enjoying and dreaming, change the situation. Get rid of the unbearable burden (toxic people, a boring job, etc.).
Now you have time. So don't waste it!
