A man who commits unforgivable acts in a love relationship will most likely remain single.
But every girl evaluates a guy already during the honeymoon period.
After this, she makes a decision: to continue dating him or to say goodbye forever.
What mistakes lead the representatives of the stronger sex to loneliness? Let's highlight 5 main ones.
1 mistake: They demand that a woman love them unconditionally
Only mothers love their children for who they are. Unfortunately, not all women feel unconditional love for men.
Fathers, unlike mothers, have conditional love for their children. From all of the above, we can draw the following conclusion: no representative of the fair sex will fall in love with you just like that. You must earn it.
To maintain relationships and tender feelings, a man must make a lot of effort. Love is like an ideal home. But each person has their own ideas about the best home in the world.
Therefore, love, like your home, needs to be built from scratch. The main thing is to lay a solid foundation and be sure to take care of a roof over your head.
2 mistake. They always whine like the last weaklings
It is believed that whining is a prerogative of women, but this is far from true. Some men also like to complain about their unfair life. However, it is not recommended for both sexes to do this.
Whiners do a lot of harm: they drain the energy and joy of their unhappy interlocutors. No one can stay in the company of a whiner for long.
Imagine how hard it will be for a woman who decides to get involved with a man who is always whining.
She will earn most of the money herself, solve all the problems that arise, and also console her upset spouse. You can't envy such a fate! Do you often complain and give up? Eradicate your bad habit now or live alone your whole life!
Mistake 3: They are terribly jealous.
Jealous men are even more terrible than nasty and whiny ones. Women know this very well. A jealous man will always find 100 reasons for jealousy and scandal.
It must be said that such a type is capable of being jealous of his beloved not only to the opposite sex. If the lady sits too long with her friend in a cafe, then the beloved will get angry and stop talking to her.
If a girl starts running home every day to help her sick mother with household chores, then the man will be offended by his beloved.
In both cases, the jealous man will decide that he is a nobody for his chosen one. And there is nothing to say about the birth of children: with the appearance of a little person in the family, the man's attacks of jealousy will become more frequent. He will not want to share his wife's love with his daughter or son.
Sometimes jealous men get bored and invent lovers for their life partners so that they have a reason to reproach her for infidelity. So, a thin colleague of his wife's, or a talkative plumber, or a 50-year-old neighbor would be perfect for the role of a treacherous seducer.
Do you control your other half? Do you forbid her to communicate with men? Do you fight with her acquaintances who dared to say hello to her in your presence? Know this: soon there will be no more of her things left in your closet.
Smart ladies don't live with jealous men. They don't want to feel like victims and be constantly nervous.
4 mistake. They do not strive for development
Men who refuse interesting work, degrade and idle, do not attract the interest of decent women. As a rule, their hobbies are limited to drinking beer, watching videos and football matches.
A reasonable man should develop, earn money, have an interesting hobby. Do you think that without all this you can live long and happily? Then do not dream of a big and friendly family.
You won't be able to provide for her anyway. Stay single, live in your own apartment, have fun with your friends. There is a charm to this lifestyle: your household will definitely not prevent you from satisfying your basic needs. And if you don't want to live like a lone wolf, then get off the couch and change your life radically.
Without the work and efforts of a man and a woman, family life will never be happy. Besides, children are very nimble and curious.
This means that their father must be erudite and easy-going. After all, the offspring won't be sitting with you within 4 walls all weekend! You definitely won't be able to do without trips to the zoo, cinema and amusement park.
Mistake 5: They treat their beloved as their property.
Have you spent your entire childhood watching your exhausted mother toiling away at two jobs and cooking the first and second courses at 3am until she passed out? Did you think that every married woman should do this? How wrong you are! Your parent chose this fate for herself. No one is to blame for the fact that she lived poorly all these years.
Today's ladies are very different from women of previous generations. They strive for equality, live freely, choose their social circle, and provide for themselves.
In their understanding, women are not free slaves, obliged to wash, cook and clean around the clock. Representatives of the weaker sex, just like men, get tired after work and do not want to toil at the stove or wash the floors.
Have you decided that you will demand complete submission and fulfillment of all the duties of a model housewife from your future wife? Remember: only a downtrodden girl will contact you. But here's the problem: there are almost none left! Learn to respect the weaker sex before you think about marriage. Otherwise, no woman will love and respect you.
