A healthy, serious relationship can only be formed if both partners are ready for it emotionally, spiritually and psychologically.
In all other cases, the relationship will become a big disappointment for the woman.
What 5 Signs You Shouldn't Ignore
Man Considers Cup of Coffee a 'Serious Investment' in Girl
Modern young people have a misconception about the equality situation, believing that it eliminates the need to observe the rules of politeness and the courtship period.
If you consider even buying a cup of coffee for a girl you like an "investment", then you are definitely not ready for a serious relationship.
Friends are always more important
It is extremely strange to hear from middle-aged people that their friends are a priority. If you build your life correctly, then neither relationships nor friendships should conflict.
If a man cannot pay due attention to a woman, but is always ready to spend time with friends, then he has not yet mentally left adolescence.
Infantile dreams
Anyone can dream, but in middle age it is time to free yourself from illusions. Don't cherish obviously infantile fantasies, concentrating on the real world.
If you notice that your potential partner has very infantile dreams and fantasies, then you should think about it carefully, experts say.
Disrespect for women
If you notice that a man generally speaks negatively about women, then this clearly does not characterize him in the best light. Such men are used to shifting responsibility to others.
Their ex-wives will always be to blame for the breakup, because they did not appreciate such a “luxurious” man next to them.
A serious person will never show disrespect to a person only because of his gender. He will not respect you either once you get close.
Financial insolvency
It is difficult to plan a truly serious relationship with a financially insolvent man. It is unlikely that a self-respecting woman has dreamed of "closing the issues" of her admirer all her life.
It is difficult to plan a family with financially insolvent men, since expenses will only increase.
