Let's look at the stages at which a man leaves his family.
Psychologist Rishat Zarayev explained why men leave their families.
Bouquets, candies, cafes and movies after marriage, if they do not end, then at least take up much less time in the lives of young and not so young couples. This is without even mentioning the constantly repeating wheel of everyday life.
After all, what is a family in essence? There are two sides. The first is a reliable rear, household members waiting for the return of the head of the family, a ready dinner, perhaps.
The second side is that the family requires attention, investments, and experiences. The family is the responsibility of each member for their own area.
Often a man is simply not ready for such changes in his life. This may be partly due to the infantilism instilled by modern society, where it is not accepted to take responsibility for the lives of other people.
Unable to foresee the consequences of his steps, a man can commit acts whose consequences he did not calculate.
Of course, it is wrong to blame only the man for this. After all, the nail on which the family is held is, of course, the woman.
A woman's ability to use "soft power" and influence the direction of a man's actions is the foundation of family stability. The ability to calm men's passions, to support in difficult times. And it is precisely in difficult times that the strength of family relationships is tested.
When both the man and the woman behave like adults. Pay attention to the difficulties and problems of the partner, try to help each other, family love can turn into a family idyll.
Where each partner is not just a lover, but much more.
Despite the fact that it is generally accepted that men are "rock solid", they also have experiences. Men can also feel insecure and afraid of changes in life. It is important to support at this moment.
Sometimes it is enough to talk about what is bothering your partner.
Divorce statistics and research show that more than 80 percent of divorces and the infidelities that precede them occur after the husband and wife stop sharing their personal problems and experiences with each other.
Sometimes a smile and a kind word are enough to maintain peace and strength in a family for many years.
