Many women strive to be strong and self-sufficient. This is a special trend of the 21st century.
But, as practice has shown, men are not delighted with the popularization of this image.
What is a modern woman like?
Psychologist Stanislav Sambursky lists some of its qualities:
- earns well;
- knows his worth;
- able to defend itself;
- remains calm under stress;
- controls emotions;
- no one can influence her self-esteem;
- takes care of himself;
- purposeful;
- looks at things adequately;
- knows how to enjoy being alone;
- abstracts from negativity.
It seems to be a portrait of an ideal woman, but not for men. A lady with such characteristics is not interesting to them, it is difficult to build relationships with her, enjoy life and here is why.
- Unlike "simpler" persons, work comes first for them. Meetings are held strictly according to schedule. No spontaneity.
- Besides work, there is time for herself. It includes children, hobbies, beautician, sports, etc. If there is a dilemma: a meeting with a man or a massage, most likely she will choose the second.
- A sudden silence from the man's side gives rise to the question: "What happened?" It is asked once. Not hearing a clear explanation, the woman crosses out her partner from her life, because it is a waste of time.
- She knows what she wants from life, so she builds the scenario of the relationship herself. The partner's opinion is not an authority.
- A man must answer numerous uncomfortable questions, because he needs to be studied thoroughly. The future of the relationship directly depends on the answers received.
- When you treat yourself inappropriately, you draw conclusions that turn into actions.
No matter how beautiful this woman is, she is impossible to control. She is "inconvenient". She cannot be used for selfish purposes. To be with her means to take a subordinate position. There is no compromise or parity here.
