At any historical time, the question of whether a man has sincere and real feelings for her is relevant for a woman. This gives an understanding of whether he is worth trusting.
Psychologist Ami Lev told how to understand that a man really loves you: signs
At different stages of a relationship, a man shows the sincerity of his feelings in different ways, so we will analyze two important periods.
At the beginning of a relationship there are always a lot of doubts: people look at each other, worry about the impression they made and wonder what is going on in the other person’s head.
And it is during this period that it is especially important to pay attention to the man’s behavior, as there are many signals of sincere sympathy or idle interest in the woman.
What are the signals that indicate that a man has genuine feelings?
- He acts stupid, like a boy at school. He can make awkward jokes, be clumsy, embarrassed. Neither age, nor status, nor wealth affect this. Sincere feelings erase such conventions.
- Nice words. He does not throw around beautiful compliments. It is not easy for him to find words, so nice compliments are said either casually, or veiled, or in very simple phrases.
- His body reactions also signal a lot. He can't relax and feel at ease. And a woman can easily notice that a man is trying very hard, his body is tense.
- His look. It won't be confident like popular sex symbols in cinema. This look will be soft, hiding a joyful smile.
- Actions. He will seek meetings, find reasons to see each other, provide assistance or care, make efforts.
- Interest. He listens to the woman. He is interested in everything connected with her. Even if it is a tedious story about your grandmother who in your distant childhood took you to the garden to pick raspberries.
A man who is looking for a casual relationship or who has only an idle interest in a woman, on the contrary, is very relaxed, self-confident, easily gives compliments, but does not rush to her aid or to meet her.
And, perhaps most importantly, he is not very interested in what is important to her.
Once in a relationship, a man's feelings are not so seasoned with embarrassment, awkwardness and boyish charm. The man is relaxed, because the woman is already with him.
However, some signs continue to literally scream that he loves his woman.
- interest in everything that is important and interesting to her.
- the desire to take care of her, help her and make her happy (at this point, the details depend on the man's love language and his psychotype: gifts, time together, emotions, food or help with chores, as best you can)
- actions: if a man loves, he will do, and not talk about what he wants to do.
- focus on family: sincere feelings always evoke in men, at the instinctive level, the desire to create a family.
The family format may differ in the worldview and mentality of the man: for some it is cohabitation and a common life, for others it is an official marriage or children, but it is always about the desire to create a shared space for two.
Of course, there are different psychological types of men. Some are rather dry and have a hard time talking about feelings, others are creative and tender, and others are pragmatists and buy wallpaper for renovations instead of flowers.
But the signals above are always about love.
