Getting along with the older generation is difficult. Differences in interests and worldviews affect how communication will develop.
It is especially difficult to interact, although it sounds strange, with the closest ones. They are parents.
But you can still build healthy relationships with your mom and dad if you know their main secrets.
Don't shout
Yelling is a sign of childish behavior. You shouldn't take this position because it will be a losing one and will not allow you to achieve your goal.
It is necessary to express your thoughts calmly. If irritation makes itself known, you need to start breathing deeply. This will not allow you to lose your mental balance.
Listen
It is worth letting the parents speak. Only after that should you express your point of view.
The latter will be taken into account if respect is shown beforehand, expressed in an interest in the thoughts of adults.
Don't try to make anyone fit you
When you hear the position of your mom and dad, you just need to accept it. Then you should think about how to act, how to behave.
You shouldn't try to influence your relatives, to force them to bend. Nothing good will come of it, but the relationship will deteriorate.
See the good
It is in everyone. In parents, you need to try to notice positive traits and emphasize them.
In this case, there will be many pleasant moments in the relationship. And quarrels and conflicts will practically disappear.
