Many ladies understand that any attempts to get closer to the image of an ideal woman will never be successful.
And yet, the female half of humanity is waging a fierce struggle with its own shortcomings.
Do you also want to work hard on yourself? Stop! Before you start eradicating your flaws, check if they delight men.
Perhaps these imperfections give you a special charm.
So what are the 6 attractive flaws that women have, from a men's point of view?
1. Tendency to laziness
Of course, laziness should be moderate. Sometimes women reproach themselves for the slightest signs of laziness. In childhood, we were all scolded for this, and for good reason. After all, grandmothers and mothers themselves did not want to clean up the room of a child who had scattered all the toys. It is better to give the child a scolding and go read a women's novel.
Even in those years, our loved ones knew how to be lazy sensibly. But, alas, we have not inherited this skill from them. We wash, cook and wash floors, exhausting ourselves. We tend the garden when we are sick, we fall off our feet. We are afraid of laziness like fire. Most men are more relaxed about this issue. They think: "I am overcome by laziness, which means I can relax to my heart's content, without worrying about anything." And they also consider girls who know how and love to be lazy from time to time to be wonderful and interesting.
If they are sometimes too lazy to get out of bed, they certainly won’t pester their chosen one with demands: “Fix the shelf and wash the dishes after yourself. Stop being lazy!”
Men have already had time to enjoy their mother's remarks in childhood, and they do not want to see a strict parent in the person of their beloved. It is much more pleasant to have such a lazy and positive lady at their side.
2. Carelessness
Some representatives of the stronger sex are very selective. Sometimes women meet such pedantic types who will first see a speck of dust on the nightstand or a bread crumb on the table, and then scream: "How could you make such a mess?" Fortunately, these are rare cases.
As a rule, the stronger sex notices objects of interest to them and turns a blind eye to minor details. It turns out that the average man will not be horrified by the sight of your broken nail or a stain on your home T-shirt. He will calmly take your habit of eating chips, lying on the couch and scattering crumbs on the bedspread.
And, believe me, he will like your indifference to slight disorder. Scattered things can be ironed and neatly folded in the closet, the carpet - vacuumed, but all this later. Let your beloved understand that you are a slob with an easy character. It's wonderful!
Just don't overdo it and accidentally turn your apartment into a dump.
3. Carefree
Frivolous girls have always attracted admirers, which is easy to explain. Young and strict teachers excite men only with their appearance. And that's only in porn films. There, sultry beauties in tight skirts, translucent blouses and glasses seduce spoiled poor students. But in real life, all teachers are terrible bores and bitches, ruining the childhood of tomboys. They are terribly serious and arrogant. It is impossible to communicate with them, because teachers find fault with every word said.
That's why some representatives of the stronger sex try to avoid ladies working in the field of education. Women who are overly serious are more suitable for infantile overgrown men who are unable to take a step without someone else's instructions and teachings. But you need a real independent suitor who needs a frivolous, funny young lady, which means the option with a formidable teacher is out. Go for it!
4. Falling in love
We prefer not to tell our lovers about our past passions. We hide such secrets even from our girlfriends. And from the whole world! Almost all girls can tell about all their love stories: their first school love (innocent) and a couple of unsuccessful and meaningless romances. That's where the story ends. In the eyes of men, they are all as innocent as newborn children. But if you ask old friends of these modest girls, they will remember at least a dozen men with whom these beauties had affairs. Is it serious? No, men happily forget about the former gentlemen of their one and only.
To tell the truth, not all men like inexperienced women. And it’s hard to call these men full-fledged. They are tormented by terrible complexes, they are afraid that they will be worse than their predecessors, so they choose modest virgins. But successful representatives of the stronger sex like amorous girls, wise with experience.
Such representatives of the fair sex already know what kind of man they want to see next to them. It turns out that they will not peck at their life partner's brain with the phrase: "This is not the kind of love I always dreamed of! You have disappointed me."
5. Sensitivity
The female body is very mysterious and sometimes inexplicable. And a woman's mood is a separate science! Men do not know why our mood changes 100 times a day.
Even if you write on the mirror with your favorite lipstick: "Not safe, premenstrual syndrome! Don't come close!", your loved one will still not understand why you are so angry and whiny. But with all this, representatives of the stronger sex lose their temper because of these very sudden changes in a woman's mood.
They believe that excessive emotionality is nothing more than hysteria. That is why men prefer not to start relationships with hysterical girls.
Now forget what you just read. It's a lie!
In fact, the stronger sex does not understand what is going on in our heads, because the female body is designed differently. Men are not able to read us, because they do not have such an option. That is why we constantly chew everything up and explain it to them.
When you don't hide your emotions, and even express them vividly, everything immediately becomes clear to your man. That's what he needs!
Avoid such plots: "Honey, are you upset about something?" - "No, honey, everything is fine." Otherwise, after this, you will have a terrible quarrel out of nowhere. Then your beloved will have a series of questions "Why?", "Why?", "When?" etc. And if you growl at him once, then everything will be fine. The man will immediately understand your warning about the danger and give you time to cool down.
6. Signs of a masculine character
In reality, there are no exclusively feminine and masculine qualities. So dividing them into 2 large groups is pointless. Their formation is not affected by gender differences. It is rather a matter of upbringing and the influence of the environment in which the individual was born, grew up and matured. Today, many girls believe that they lack femininity.
This issue causes serious concerns among the weaker sex. As a result, they try to seem weak and naive fools. They waste their life resources on this pointlessly, and men do not appreciate their efforts one bit.
There are 2 reasons for this:
- They sense insincerity and lies.
- Ladies with a strong and resilient masculine character delight and conquer men.
The representatives of the stronger sex were also influenced by their upbringing. As boys, they listened to the instructions of their fathers and grandfathers.
Relatives told the children that all women are narrow-minded, weak, capricious and hysterical.
Grown-up men came to the conclusion that the fairer sex are strange, stupid and whiny creatures not of this world.
Some men still think that we women speak a different language, have no logic and suffer from topographic cretinism. But if one of these men suddenly meets not a robot or an alien, but a normal girl, he will be happy. It turns out that there are normal people among women too. What joy!
