Everyone becomes a parent, no one is born one. No one has the skills to deal with children from the start.
Because of this, mistakes are made in the process of education, blunders are allowed. It cannot be said that this is something critical or terrible.
This kind of scenario is acceptable, but it is very important to correct your behavior, to make adjustments, first of all, to your behavior.
It is very important for young parents to follow certain prohibitions. This will help them achieve the best possible results in raising their children.
Refusal of excessive guardianship
It is necessary to take care of the child, to do some things for him or her. But at the same time, it is necessary to rationally evaluate the circumstances, as well as the capabilities and abilities of the son or daughter.
If you do not give a child independence at all, he will not get used to showing it. Because of this, he will feel inferior and will not be able to realize himself in life.
Do not demand obedience
Everyone has their own space, the right to spend time doing what they love. And it doesn't depend on age. Parents should warn their child that their help will be needed at some point, that they will need to take a break from their activity for a certain amount of time.
If you constantly yank him around, demanding that he go somewhere at the behest of his mom and dad, then you will end up raising him as a puppet, not an independent person.
Don't indulge the child
You can refuse even the smallest ones. Don't give in to hysterics and screams.
If you agree to everything, if you fulfill all your child's demands, then he may decide that he can always get his way. And he will certainly use this in the future.
Don't talk much
This applies to cases when the child has done something wrong. At such moments, they start scolding him, telling him how badly he acted. This needs to be done, it is also important to explain what exactly was wrong, how it could have been done differently.
You shouldn’t be verbose about it, because otherwise the baby’s consciousness will switch off, which he will quickly get used to.
Such advice should be followed in any situation. Without it, it will be difficult to raise a child.
