Modern representatives of the stronger sex are very different from the men who lived in the 20th century. They, like women, maintain a healthy lifestyle, express their feelings and visit beauty salons.
Psychologists have formulated 9 rules of conduct for the fair half of humanity.
If you want to get married successfully, you should not only read all of these tips, but also use them.
1. Dream together
Imagine buying a new kitchen set, getting a dog, or flying to the Maldives.
Your dreams should be shared, as should the efforts that will bring you closer to your main goals in life. When you furnish your kitchen, bring home a cute puppy and return from the Maldives, you will immediately have a desire to form new dreams that you will go towards together.
Conquer new horizons, achieve success together. Remember: your family is like a bicycle. When you stop moving, your bicycle will fall.
2. Become an irreplaceable assistant for him
Thanks to partnerships, many modern couples form strong relationships that last for many years. We are not talking about family business now, although it is also appropriate in this context.
Of course, your man is doing his job and is serious about it. Why don't you help him?
Surely you know English, type quickly on a computer, have legal skills or are a talented event organizer! In any case, you have some talent.
Your knowledge and skills will be very useful to your other half. He himself will not want to part with you in the future, because translators, lawyers or event managers like you are hard to find. Not every woman can become his lover and faithful partner at the same time.
3. Divide the responsibilities
Today's representatives of the strong half of humanity want to be authoritative. However, they absolutely do not want to solve all the difficult problems on their own. Meanwhile, family life involves risk and difficulties.
However, modern successful ladies do many things no worse than men. They plaster walls and glue wallpaper in the house, take out a loan or mortgage, drive a car. Most likely, you also consider yourself quite a successful and independent woman? Then discuss important household issues together with your man.
Tell him that you are ready to share all the important responsibilities with him, but do not let your chosen one sit on your neck. Let him also work for the good of your union.
4. Laugh when he jokes.
According to the results of a study conducted by psychologist Robert Provine, there are three times more representatives of the stronger sex who highly value their own sense of humor than those who dream of a partner who knows how to joke excellently.
One conclusion can be drawn from this: men believe that their talent for making people laugh is an important skill that all women should appreciate and notice. Take this information into account.
First, you need to make sure that your humor preferences match. You need to be honest and open with your man so that you don’t end up having to fake laugh at something that doesn’t make you laugh.
5. Be an attentive listener
Every man needs support when he feels heavy or hurts at heart. At such moments, your chosen one wants you to listen and understand him, but in no case to interfere with your annoying questions and advice.
Let him finish speaking, don't interrupt. Just listen and be silent. A man should understand that you are the woman next to whom he can be unafraid of his feelings.
6. Show your weakness
Let your loved one show himself, and to hell with women's emancipation! Give him the cherished trump cards that he wants to get. Let the man take care of you, do not resist.
Representatives of the stronger sex like to show care towards their other half, because this quality is genetically embedded in them. Are you afraid of thunder, a manual transmission or a mouse running around the kitchen?
Tell your loved one about this, and he will instantly relieve you of all these problems and console you. Try to be as sweet and defenseless as possible. Do not doubt, this technique works on men without fail!
7. Give him support
Now forget about the previous point for a while. When serious troubles appear on the horizon, you must be collected and steadfast. Any man will like a lady who can support him in a problematic situation.
Don't whine or accuse your chosen one of frivolity, even if his salary wasn't enough this month for all your common needs. You don't want him to feel weak and give up, do you?
Tell your loved one an encouraging phrase: "We will overcome all these adversities together!" But there is one exception - do not repeat these words every month to a man who spends all his money to the last penny. Otherwise, he will relax and remove all financial responsibility from himself.
8. Put everyday life aside
Forget about cooking and laundry for at least an hour. Spend time fooling around together, kissing and other nice things you can do with your loved one.
If a man asks you what you would like to do in your free time, answer without hesitation that you want to go to the theater, a pizzeria, or just take a walk in the park.
Spending time at home in a cozy and familiar dressing gown will inevitably lead you to a boring life, which will subsequently destroy your love and mutual interest. Is this what you want to achieve?
9. Take care of your appearance
Representatives of the stronger sex do not ignore the actions that ladies perform for them.
Throw away your extra modesty and start reminding your loved one from time to time that you dye your hair bright red, wear light dresses or get a manicure instead of artificial nails just because he asked you to. Be sure to emphasize that you don’t really like all this, but you are ready to endure it in order to please your beloved man.
