A woman feels like a woman in full only when there is a real man nearby who does not shift responsibility onto her, who cares for her and treats her with care.
Marina Magalyasova, a psychologist, told us what signs of female love there are.
A woman will not even want or be able to display masculine qualities in a dialogue with her man, even if she clearly displays them at work and in life.
Here with the idea: "A woman is made by a man." This phrase personifies female love. A woman is filled with tenderness, feeling a strong man who loves her nearby.
There is no place for transference to the father or the child. Here are two adults, ready for love, for tenderness and care. Only when a woman is ready, or rather "matured" to the adult feeling of love, can it be born inside, and the right person will immediately pull up, both suitable and ready.
Therefore, it is always a question of your readiness, and not of “there are no suitable ones”, “all men…”. When excuses and responsibility shift to the fact that men today are not the same, it means that you do not notice something in yourself. And this is an opportunity to learn and change your settings and only then meet and fall in love.
If we talk about mature love, then these are sincere feelings of two adults, and not those compensating for their childhood traumas in a relationship. Love is a long-term relationship in which the boundaries of the other are respected.
Love can only be between two, but one will never pull this feeling. Ideally, it is a resource and support. It is a source of happiness.
What will help to preserve love for many years and create a strong union of two loving people?
- You need to be able to negotiate and accept the strengths and weaknesses of the other person.
- Get to know each other, and when you look into the eyes, see him/her, and not your fantasy ideals.
It is love that makes reality better.
BUT! Only when a woman is ready to meet a second, equal to her, the same adult, and not to take care of her son, like a mother, who just changed his mommy, or to be a little girl for a new daddy.
Of course, this is sarcasm. But consider such data in yourself as an opportunity for change and a point of growth.
