It is absolutely necessary to raise a child. Parents know about it, study a huge amount of literature, listen to the advice of psychologists in order to do it correctly.
When the baby grows up, they act as recommended, follow the rules, teach their son or daughter to do the same. But they are not always sure that they are doing the right thing, that they are not going too far.
Mom and Dad should not give in to doubts if they set boundaries for their child. He needs them, which can be explained by several reasons.
The skill of respect appears
When a child has boundaries, when he is shown how to respect them, he will understand that others live in exactly the same way. He will have an idea that it is wrong to disturb someone else's peace, that it is wrong to encroach on someone else's territory.
Gradually he will begin to respect others, which will certainly be useful to him in life.
The ability to defend oneself is developed
If a child has boundaries and restrictions, he will understand that they exist at all. He will demand that others comply with the norms, he will stand on what is right, what will be comfortable for him.
In this case, in adulthood he will be protected, will be able to provide himself with normal living conditions, and realize what seems necessary to him.
There will be a feeling of security
It will appear right in childhood, when the rules and boundaries are established. The child will see that the parents notice him, that they care about him.
With rules in his life, everything will be predictable, and that means safe. He will not have fears that will only bother him, that will prevent him from developing.
Less conflicts
With restrictions, the child will allow himself much less. And this will benefit his social life. He will adapt to society without difficulty, will communicate calmly with many.
The whole point is that he will always behave correctly, will be correct, due to which he will not provoke any quarrels.
For these reasons, parents should set rules for their children. Their presence will only benefit them both now and in the future.
