We need to be careful with words and phrases simply because everyone perceives their meaning differently.
Just 3 phrases that are familiar to everyone can destroy a relationship. First, there will be mistrust, and then, like cracks, there will be misunderstandings, omissions, quarrels.
Experts advise lovers to avoid the following careless statements.
"Everything is fine"
Usually these words are spoken by women who, despite being tired, try to prove to men that nothing happened.
But by protecting their other half from worries, women do not pay attention to how grievances begin to accumulate and partners begin to distance themselves from each other.
You can't belittle personal feelings and actions and do the same to your partner. Often, this is just an attempt to justify a lie.
Therefore, you should not wait until emotions turn into an awakened volcano and immediately point out the acute moments.
"Do it for me"
Another female phrase. It is no secret that women often expect that under their sensitive guidance a man will become better, change his life and the life of his beloved, but in fact – this leads to disagreements.
A man should not be what a woman wants him to be.
This cannot be described in any other words than self-deception and lack of love.
When entering into a serious relationship, a man and a woman must learn to accept each other as they are in real life, and not as they imagined.
"Let's not..."
The icing on the cake is the classic phrase, after which someone's things may end up on the landing in front of a closed door.
By avoiding conversations on difficult topics, lovers mistakenly believe that the problem will somehow resolve itself, or at least that the grievances will be forgotten over time.
They will not be forgotten, and they will not be resolved - you need to have the courage and tact to talk about the patient, avoiding insults, shouting and threats.
Otherwise, the grievances will turn into a huge lump that will crush all the best that the lovers once created together.
