The success of children in adulthood is the wisdom of their parents, demonstrated in the process of upbringing.
Wise parents do not trust success to chance and, instead of raising diligent, excellent students, prepare their children for trials of a completely different kind.
Having studied the relationship between parents and children, foreign psychologists have published their recommendations, which CNBC is happy to share.
What to teach a child
Firstly, children should be able to work on themselves.
This means that the child must control his emotions, develop mentally and physically in order to be able to cope with stress.
Secondly, children should be proud of their achievements.
This means that parents should appreciate the efforts that the child has made to achieve the goal.
This motivates the child to new achievements.
Thirdly, wise parents do not avoid children’s questions.
They try to give a detailed answer to all “why?” and “how?”
Therefore, parents remain unconditional authorities and leaders in the eyes of their children. Therefore, children do not have to be punished, because they grow up obedient.
Fourthly, parents learn from their children
This greatly increases children's self-esteem. Interestingly, these families do not welcome material rewards for academic success.
Fifthly, the most important thing.
Wise parents instill in their children a love of reading from an early age, making it a daily habit, but not a duty.
It has long been proven that reading develops not only vocabulary and imagination, but also creativity and increases the desire for knowledge.
