All problems of an adult person have their roots in childhood. This is what psychologists think and there is no reason to disagree with them.
By studying this phenomenon, experts were able to conclude that parents are often to blame for children's self-esteem problems.
Here are some typical mistakes in raising children that simply doom them to constant doubts, mistrust and suspiciousness in adulthood.
Protects from failures
Childhood should be safe, but this does not mean that a child should not be allowed outside because there are cars, or that he should not be allowed to roller skate because he might break his nose.
During adolescence, it is important to allow children to experience all the joys and disappointments of first love, within reasonable limits.
They admire at the slightest provocation
You need to know how to praise a child and it is recommended to do this only when it is necessary.
That is, by unreasonably admiring abilities that do not exist, adults risk raising a child with inflated self-esteem, self-confident and considering himself special.
The worst thing is that children can take advantage of adults' weaknesses.
In such cases, they may begin to lie, cheat, and adapt in order to earn encouragement.
They don't do what they teach children
Personal example is constantly mentioned in recommendations regarding raising children.
By doing what they forbid their child to do, parents forget that he will grow up to be like them first and foremost.
