In most cases, parents who help their child do absolutely the right thing.
After all, the baby’s trust in mom and dad increases, and the child feels protected.
In addition, the child begins to understand the importance of mutual assistance and the strength of family.
But it is important not to overdo it. Sometimes parental help is unnecessary and only harms the baby.
It is not for nothing that such a stable expression as “a bear service” has appeared.
Don't want your child to become helpless? Don't want to turn your son or daughter into a klutz?
Then refuse the following requests from your child.
"Put my jacket on me"
Starting from the age of three, a child should dress himself.
You can come to the aid of your baby only in difficult situations (the zipper is stuck, something is tangled/torn, etc.)
"Pack my backpack"
The student must do this independently.
Otherwise, the child will not become responsible. In addition, he will often face problems when searching for this or that thing in the backpack.
"Find my toy"
Has your little one lost his car? Let him start looking for it himself!
This is the only way a child will learn to take care of his things.
You can help your child only if it has become obvious that he cannot cope without outside help.
For reference
A child is, in its basic meaning, a person during childhood.
