Proper communication with your son or daughter is the key to a good relationship with your own child.
When communicating with a baby, parents need to show respect for their child.
There should be no insults or humiliation. Psychological pressure should also be avoided.
If mom and dad say something dangerous, the child may dislike them. And this situation may persist even after the child grows up.
So, what kind of parental phrases can ruin a relationship with a son or daughter?
"And here is your classmate/brother/friend..."
Try not to compare your child with other children. Especially if the planned comparison turns out to be not in your child's favor.
For example, a dangerous remark is: "You got a B again. But Misha is a straight A student!"
Because of this parental phrase, the child may draw the wrong conclusion that all his efforts are pointless: Mom and Dad will find something to find fault with anyway. And there will definitely be a kid who will "overtake" him.
As a result, the frustrated student will lose motivation and will begin to treat his parents worse, who “don’t notice” his successes.
"We don't care about your opinion!"
Never show disdain for your own child's opinion!
Otherwise, you will ruin your relationship with your baby and make him feel insecure and indecisive.
"Stop crying!"
A small child who often hears this phrase from his mother and father thinks something like this: “My parents don’t care about my condition.”
Is your baby crying? Don't yell at him or her and don't demand that he or she "stop crying immediately"! Instead, hug your son or daughter and wait silently until the child calms down.
