The successes and mistakes of an adult begin in childhood. How confident or downtrodden a person becomes depends on the parents, or rather, on the model of upbringing.
In the old days, people didn't think much about it and relied entirely on school and their father's belt. Now, things are different.
Experts talked about models of raising children, their differences and consequences.
Authoritarian style
It implies control and decision-making by parents about what the child needs. At the same time, parents are sure that they are doing good for their children, and they will certainly grow up successful and happy.
In reality, children become excellent students and Olympiad winners, but psychologically, everything is not very good here.
In adulthood, these people face emotional burnout, they start looking for themselves late, not always successfully and for quite a long time.
And it happens that children begin to oppose themselves to their parents right from a young age.
Liberal style
Every child dreams of this. Parents do not forbid, do not bother and allow children to independently choose activities to their liking.
Parents allow their children to learn about life through trial and error, but in adolescence, children begin to understand that they lack parental attention and love and that they need love, support and recognition from other people.
It is fraught with misunderstandings, quarrels between generations, mutual reproaches and other mutual negativity.
Nursing style
Similar to authoritarian, but very soft. In the professional environment, this model is also called overprotection - much has already been said about its harm.
Parents quickly protect their child from all the bad things from the outside world. As a result, the same total control and restriction arises.
Children grow up helpless, dependent. In the future, they face problems - increased anxiety and other examples
Democratic style
The most successful model among all those described. Communication is based on mutual respect.
But, being on the same level as the child, parents must be prepared for the fact that one day the child will declare to them his rights and their responsibilities.
The model can only be ultimately successful if children are obedient and understanding of what their parents allow them to do.
In this case, there is a chance to raise a confident, disciplined and independent person.
