Raising a child is a complex process. Mistakes are inevitable.
Fortunately, many of them are quite fixable. The child does not even take offense.
However, there are also parental mistakes that a child remembers for a long time.
It is possible that your son or daughter will not forget about the mistake you made even after they grow up.
What exactly are the wrong actions we are talking about?
Not warned about the imminent birth of a brother or sister
If you find out that another baby is coming to your family soon, be sure to warn your older child about it.
A child should be mentally prepared for the arrival of a brother or sister.
If there is no such readiness, the child will face a serious psychological blow: before, only he was loved, but now he has a “competitor”.
The lack of warning about the imminent birth of a brother or sister is fraught with the fact that the child will become withdrawn and will treat mom, dad and the youngest child in the family badly.
Comparison with brother/sister
Never compare your children. This creates competition between them.
As they grow up, your children are unlikely to treat each other well. In addition, they will probably retain resentment towards their “unfair” parents.
Child neglect
Give your baby enough attention. Don't ignore your child.
Talk to him alone more often, listen to him, find out about his problems, and solve them together.
These are important conditions for normal relationships between parent and child.
Previously, 3 popular phrases were named that should not be said to children.
