As children grow older, they realize that life is not just about sweets and gingerbread, but this fact should not darken their childhood.
The first failures are simply inevitable at school. These can be bad grades, relationships with classmates or teachers. Parents must understand how to console the child.
Experts have suggested three simple phrases that can comfort a child who has faced failure.
First advice about mistakes
It doesn’t matter whether it’s the first mistake or your child has stepped on the same rake again.
Convey to him the information that only those who never do anything make no mistakes.
Teach him to be kind to himself and the mistakes he makes, and then try to find the root of the problem and suggest a solution.
Second advice about a new chance
Children and teenagers are categorical; for them, there is no middle ground between the categories “bad” and “good”.
Explain that there is always an opportunity to correct a mistake, and sometimes it just takes some effort and effort.
Third tip about help
And the most important thing is not to leave the child alone with his failure. It is good if he understands that he can count on his parents, relatives or friends.
To do this, he must boldly talk about what happened, and therefore be confident that he will be heard, understood and helped.
And this depends entirely on the parents.
Earlier we talked about whether it is worth sending your child to a drama club .
