Parents should not sort things out in front of their child.
But what to do if the husband and wife were unable to stop in time? In other words, what to do in that situation if the quarrel has already started right in front of the baby?
Even in this case, parents are able to cope with emotions, save face and protect the child from a serious psychological blow.
During a conflict situation, spouses should never say the following phrases in the presence of their son or daughter:
"If I knew who I was marrying" or "If I knew who I was marrying"
Never show your disappointment with your significant other when your child is around.
Perhaps, after some time, you will make peace with your spouse. But the baby will not forget your harsh remark about your spouse.
It is possible that the child will come to the following conclusion: "My parents don't love each other. They might get divorced soon."
"One more time and you'll be raising a child alone"
Men must understand the following: such a threat will most likely cause more harm to the child than to the wife.
The wife will probably think: "I can handle it alone. I will still be happy, because my child will stay close." But the baby will experience a serious psychological blow: "I will never see dad again..."
And a wife should not say the following to her husband: “One more word like that and you will never see your child again.”
"You're just like your mother" or "You're just like your father"
During family conflicts in front of the child, do not mention other relatives under any circumstances. First of all, we are talking about the parents of your other half.
After all, the baby's grandparents don't even take part in the quarrel.
Earlier we listed the signs of a genius child.
