A child can remember one or another mistake made by his mother and father for the rest of his life.
Resentment towards parents can last for a very long time.
There are mistakes in upbringing, due to which the child faces serious psychological problems.
So, what kind of mistakes of mom and dad will a son or daughter remember for a long time, if not forever?
Unwillingness to become an example for a child
If you demand something from a child, be sure to set an example.
Want your child to not use bad words in his speech? Don't swear yourself!
Want your child to become goal-oriented and strong-willed? Demonstrate similar character traits.
Be a positive example for your child, and then he will become happy and successful.
Comparison with other children
You shouldn't compare your son or daughter with classmates or brothers/sisters. This can lead to the development of complexes and low self-esteem in the child.
In addition, the baby may become envious.
If you do compare your child with other children, do not ignore those cases when your child turned out to be better.
Excessive demands
There is no need to demand from a student only the highest grades in school and only first places in competitions.
The child is unlikely to cope with the increased workload.
In addition, failures may befall the child through no fault of his own. And the subsequent punishment will be perceived by the child as unfair.
Earlier we listed mothers' phrases that can ruin a daughter's life.
