Mistakes Parents Make That Cause Children to Grow Up Unsure of Themselves

19.03.2024 07:47

Parents make mistakes in upbringing without intent and often do not even suspect that their actions have negative consequences.

The behavior of parents influences children and can even cause the child to grow up insecure.

According to experts, there are two such errors, both unconscious and both disruptive to development.

Why do children grow up insecure?

First of all, you can’t compare your child with other people’s children.

Even if you compare with a brother, sister, children of friends or classmates, all this creates insecurity in the child.

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As a result, envy or low self-esteem may develop.

Secondly, there is no need to make perfectionists out of children.

It is almost impossible to raise a child to be successful, obedient and diligent.

And the desire of parents to create an ideal child who will never make mistakes will make him insecure and form a feeling of inferiority.

In the future, such people may have problems in everyday life and in relationships with others.

Previously, we talked about what to do if a child has a gaming addiction .

Igor Zur Author: Igor Zur Internet resource editor