We can talk endlessly about the rights and responsibilities of children and parents. Parents can become exemplary in their efforts to begin to respect the interests of their child.
The question is, will the child learn the same and why in some cases mothers and fathers cannot count on reciprocity?
According to experts , only one detail is missing: the child is taught only to consume goods and not to give anything in return.
Oddly enough, the root of the error originates in the parent’s boundless love for the child.
Most often, those who do not value themselves, sacrifice their plans, goals and interests, find themselves in such a situation.
Another mistake parents make is giving something away when the child hasn’t asked for it.
In this case, it turns out that the parent is begging or even imposing himself, and the child has no choice but to take it and get used to the fact that they will soon give him more. Not a very good excuse.
What should parents do?
First, you need to understand the value of your own life.
Secondly, don’t rush to help when no one asks for it.
Thirdly, when it comes to explanations, and sooner or later this will happen (if everything is done correctly), then accusations must be excluded.
It is worth reminding that the problem cannot be solved with the wave of a magic wand.
And no one can guarantee that the ungrateful heir will suddenly change his behavior.
Earlier we talked about what parental actions children remember for the rest of their lives .
