Parents, trying to give their child the best or protect them from difficulties, do not always do the right thing.
Experts have long said that in some cases the program to “become a loser” is instilled in people from childhood, and by the closest people.
It is believed that the first 7 years of life determine the future character of the child, including his success, and all because children absorb any information, but do not have critical thinking.
1. The main mistake is the desire to give the child a better life.
But a child surrounded by total care and love grows up capricious. As a result, it turns out that a person is not able to accept that in the adult world, tears and emotions will not achieve anything.
2. Another important point is when parents interfere with the choice of profession, wanting to realize their dreams that did not come true.
In such cases, parents forget that their child should live his own life, and their interference often reduces the chances of success.
3. Parents should also avoid words such as “crybaby,” “talentless,” and other caustic remarks.
One day, the child may come to terms with them, especially if he considers his parents' opinion authoritative.
Experts advise to ensure that the child grows up hard-working, communicate with him as an equal, and also carefully provide him with the necessary information.
In this case, his chances of achieving success in the future will be much greater.
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