Every coin has a flip side, and this is especially important to remember in the difficult task of raising children.
The process is so complex that without constantly updating your knowledge base, it will be impossible to go through this path without making any mistakes. Is it enough to simply avoid toxic relationships?
Experts have named popular mistakes parents make when they want to do the best.
The child comes first
They say that this is the easiest way to ruin the lives of your own children.
By being overly caring and trying to give everything they didn't have, some parents refuse to develop themselves, which your child will definitely not appreciate.
By dedicating themselves to every minute of a child's life to protect them from stress, mistakes, disappointments and other adversities, parents hinder the formation of a healthy and strong personality.
This type of upbringing is called overprotectiveness.
Feeling of superiority
Ideally, a child should be able to objectively evaluate his actions. No need to shower him with compliments for every little thing.
In the adult world, such a person may face many disappointments, since a modest assessment of his actions may seem offensive.
Excessive criticism
Trying to toughen up or for other reasons, but excessively criticizing a child, parents can devalue his achievements.
At the very least, you need to respect the child's interests. At the same time, the child must understand that the parents are ready to support him in one direction or another.
Earlier we talked about what phrases children should hear from their parents every day.
