There are many different methods in raising our children.
Prohibitions are an integral part of raising children. But there are things in a child's life that should never be prohibited.
Eat on your own
Sometimes it is much easier and faster to feed a child with a spoon. But when a mother forbids him to eat on his own, he does not feel grown up.
When he starts eating on his own, he is taking the first step towards independent living. Don't stop him.
Provide you with assistance
Often you can hear parents say words asking their child not to touch something fragile or to put something heavy back in its place.
And after some time they complain that the child does not help them with anything.
Children really need to be significant, useful. Do not stop his zeal. And be sure to approve of the work and praise him.
Ask your child for help.
Drawing
To prevent the baby from getting his clothes dirty, or, God forbid, the interior of the room, mothers do not allow the child to draw.
It is important to remember that through drawing a child shares his feelings and emotions that he cannot yet express in words.
It is necessary to allocate a work place for him and prepare special clothing.
Move energetically
When a child fools around, runs, jumps and makes noise, he splashes out accumulated emotions so that he can relax later.
Explain to your child that you can’t do this everywhere, but at home, have some fun together.
Mastering the playground
Some mothers, instead of teaching their child how to swing on a swing, climb a slide or master a ladder, stop the child: "Stop! You'll fall!"
Play with water
Water is a source of discovery and experimentation for a child. Better join in the water games and you will have a lot of fun.
Touching fragile things
Which is in vain. Explain to the child that a fragile object can be looked at, but then carefully put back in place. Tell what can happen and how to do everything carefully.
Expressing your opinion
By forbidding this, parents forget that the child has his own needs and wishes.
It is necessary to communicate with children as equals, you need to listen to them and hear them. Even a small child is already a person. He has the right to his own opinion.
A ban in a child's life should appear in a situation where there is a threat to safety. It should be conveyed in a calm tone and certainly with an explanation of why.
Earlier we talked about how to free your child from computer captivity.
