Every parent wants their child to be successful in studies, sports, and creativity.
But in order for the child to demonstrate good results in at least one of these areas, mom and dad should not put psychological “pressure” on the child.
You can't tell a child that he "must" study well and win everywhere. Of course, you can't threaten punishment for failure.
The child should feel the following: “My parents believe in me, but if something doesn’t work out, they will support me and won’t scold me.”
What parental phrases will make a child purposeful and self-confident?
"We believe in you"
Show that you believe in your child. A simple phrase will help the child to set himself up for success.
"You can handle problems"
If your child faces numerous difficulties, explain to him that he should not give up.
"Don't be afraid of mistakes"
Let your child understand that he/she is not obliged to always act correctly. Moreover, it is impossible to be perfect.
"We will come to your aid if you ask."
Remind your child that you are ready to help him at any time. At the same time, show that you do not plan to impose help.
"We love you"
A simple reminder of parental love also motivates a child.
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