Sometimes parents, in their desperate desire to achieve the desired pedagogical effect, can go too far.
Without proper knowledge in the field of psychology, one can harm the child’s mental development.
What 3 things should not be forced on children
Deceive
Sometimes parents ask you to "play along" by asking your children to lie. Even if the lie is harmless, you will simply change the child's worldview.
Children are taught from an early age that it is bad to lie. If such a request is made by authoritative adults (mom, dad and other relatives), it has a powerful negative effect.
Eat up
If you want your children to always have a healthy relationship with food, they should eat exactly as much as they want. If they have no appetite, you can’t force a child to eat.
This parental habit can cause children to develop obesity, bulimia and anorexia, experts warn.
Apologize
This is an important educational moment, so you can't devalue it. If the child does not consider himself guilty, then you need to convey your idea correctly.
If you just want to please someone with your child’s good manners, then you clearly shouldn’t do this.
