The First Three Minute Rule: Why All Parents Should Follow It

30.06.2023 20:01

Every parent wants to have a warm and trusting relationship with their child. But not everyone succeeds.

As a result, the already grown-up heirs become offended by their mother or father for indifference, lack of love and other problems that they had to face at a tender age.

But all these complaints might not have happened if all parents knew about the first three minutes rule.

It is believed that this is exactly the amount of time that is needed to be given to children in the first minutes when mom or dad enters the house.

In this case, the daughter or son will feel attention, love, and interest from their relative.

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Experts note that in the first minutes it is advisable not only to listen to the child, but also to establish tactile contact, for example, hug the baby or stroke his head.

Many adults make the mistake of immediately falling on the couch or starting to do household chores, but not paying attention to their children.

In this case, younger family members may feel lonely and lost.

Olga Kotova Author: Olga Kotova Internet resource editor