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5 Signs That It's Too Early for You and Your Partner to Move In Together: How to Understand That There's No Need to Rush
06.07.2024 08:15
There is an opinion that the best way to test your relationship is to move in together.
However, there is no need to rush to pack your bags – it is not a fact that you and your partner are ready for a new stage in life.
You are still in the honeymoon period.
There's nothing wrong with flowers, moonlit walks, and cute surprises - but you're unlikely to have had a fight with your partner at this stage.
In this case, there is a high probability that, when faced with everyday life, you will look at your partner with a more rational outlook and experience slight disappointment, which will inevitably lead to discord.
You are comfortable and separate
If you don’t feel a wild desire to drop everything and show up at your significant other’s place to kiss him/her for no reason, but calmly make plans for the week, setting aside a few hours for meetings, you shouldn’t rush things and say goodbye to your own comfort.
You are unable to assess the situation sensibly.
Don't assume that life together consists solely of cozy evenings under a blanket and passionate nights. In addition, it includes scattered socks, snoring, mountains of cosmetics in the bathroom and other not very pleasant little things.
You must be prepared to put up with your partner's habits, as well as the fact that he now sees you from all sides - if you do not realize this, then there is a high probability of quarrels arising out of nothing.
You didn't discuss financial matters.
Before you move in together, you need to discuss who will pay for the accommodation, whose money you will use to buy the sofa, and how much each of you will put aside for the common budget.
Your relationship is not perfect
If you constantly argue with your partner when you're not yet living under the same roof, it's hard to imagine what will happen when you move in together.
Most likely, the relationship will only get worse, because there will be many more reasons for conflict.
Earlier we listed 5 phrases at the beginning of a relationship , after which it is worth breaking up with a person.
