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What You Shouldn't Talk About with a Man on a First Date: Experts Name a List of Topics
20.04.2024 18:30
If you are determined to start a family, then you should take a more responsible approach to communication on the first date.
Even if you consider yourself an incredibly attractive and desirable woman, this will not help you attract a worthy man in the long term.
The main task will be to make a good impression on the first date.
Topics that should not be raised
Income
Of course, any woman wants to immediately understand what kind of man she is dealing with, so as not to waste time. But it is worth understanding that not everyone likes such a material approach.
Men also want to feel interesting and attractive. If you ask about income, then you are simply assigning him the role of "wallet" for the realization of your needs.
After this, many men may simply disappear. It is better to carefully "feel out" this topic. Assess what place he invited you to, how he reacted to your orders, what he chose for himself.
Evaluate clothes, ask about leisure, favorite activities. This will allow you to delicately find out about the level of income.
What a bad ex you had
Many people want to complain to a potential suitor about how their ex didn’t appreciate them, didn’t love them, and overall turned out to be an unworthy person.
At the same time, our interlocutor makes only one conclusion: you tolerated such an attitude and were ready for it. Experts do not recommend speaking badly about your ex-partner.
Too personal topics
A man can ask unpleasant questions himself, but you shouldn't answer them. This way you will show that you value and respect yourself, set personal boundaries and are not ready to let a practically stranger into your intimate territory.
Such delicate topics are discussed after your couple has formed.
Previously, we talked about the signs that indicate that people will be able to live together for their entire lives .
