3 Compliments for a Girl That Can Ruin a Date: You Really Don't Want to Hear

05.04.2024 17:40

There are certain phrases that men consider compliments that girls would prefer never to hear.

Want an example? Here you go – in this article you will find three phrases that can only cause offense.

For a girl, you drive very well.

It's time to stop being surprised by the fact that a fragile girl with a cute appearance can be a PhD candidate or a prosecutor, an excellent parking specialist or an app developer.

Such a “compliment” only projects gender stereotypes onto girls, and the amazement in the speaker’s voice imbues it with condescension, and instead of praise the girl hears something like: “Wow, even you have achieved something.”

This hairstyle suits you so much, do it more often

Of course, it’s nice to know that your partner has noticed your hair, but there’s a subtext to this compliment: do it this way, because otherwise you look worse.

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This expression in a girl's eyes can look like pickiness, so let people (both women and men) decide for themselves in what state to live their own lives.

Your arms are so strong, not like mine - like two noodles.

You won’t hear the word “thank you” in response to such praise, because it may seem to your interlocutor that you don’t want to point out her strengths, but to hear a refutation of your words.

The girl has no choice but to either deny everything or try to convince the would-be complimenter that he is also beautiful. As a result, the meaning of the compliment is completely lost.

Earlier, BelNovosti revealed 4 signs that indicate that your beloved man is not planning to get married.

Author: Elena Shimanovskaya Editor of Internet resources

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  1. For a girl, you drive very well.
  2. This hairstyle suits you so much, do it more often
  3. Your arms are so strong, not like mine - like two noodles.