Psychologist Katerina Buldaeva told what destroys relationships with women
The Indian Vedas, which are more than 5000 years old, say that a husband is the person to whom a woman opens her heart.
Psychologist Katerina Buldaeva told what destroys relationships with women.
This is the most important rule in communicating with a woman, which is often neglected by men.
When a woman says I need to tell her something, I need to talk, it is important not to leave this moment unnoticed.
Any relationship begins with close, heartfelt conversations, and if you stop paying attention to such conversations, they can quickly end.
We all know stories when people began to actively communicate on social networks, got to know each other through correspondence, became closer and left their regular partners, who at some point stopped talking and taking an interest in the lives of their loved ones.
Women are very emotional by nature, they have many anxious thoughts, changeable mood, depending on the female cycle. Women need to say more words per day than a man.
It is vital for them to talk about their emotions and feelings so that they can be heard, without necessarily solving their problems, difficulties, or offering ways out of difficult situations.
Therefore, it is important to accept the nature of a woman, not so much to understand her, but to love her. With men, it is the opposite: they need understanding, and then love.
The second important point in a relationship is boundaries. If a man constantly distances himself from a woman, is cold, unavailable, does not answer her calls, the fair sex will develop high anxiety, she will begin to suspect him of cheating, worry.
And vice versa, if a man is very protective of a woman, does not give her the opportunity to take a step without him, decides everything for her, takes up all her time, leaving no room for hobbies, communication with friends and other feminine pleasures.
The latter begins to choke from such an excess of attention, stops appreciating her man and respecting him properly. Therefore, as with everything in our world, the main thing is to find a balance.
Frequently encountered situations when a man in a relationship with a woman stops taking care of himself, shaving for the sake of his beloved, doing physical exercise, initiating joint leisure time, and simply lies down on the couch and hangs out on the phone for hours, also begin to destroy the relationship.
The woman loses interest in her man. The partner's appearance, his neatness and grooming are also important for a healthy relationship. There is a myth that his woman should monitor this.
It's strange.. After all, we live with an adult, he is not a child. A man should not only take care of his own appearance, but also not spare time and money for the attractiveness and beauty of his woman.
Very often roles in relationships are violated: the woman becomes like a mother, and the man, like a child, begins to complain to the woman, and she solves his problems.
This phenomenon is called emotional incest, in which sexual relations end immediately.
The only thing that can be worse is when a woman starts helping a man with money, looking for a job for him, asking loved ones for help for her man.
If a man agrees to this, most likely the relationship will either become unhealthy or end, and the man will not be grateful to the woman, he will go to someone who will be her absolute opposite!
In addition, there is another very gross mistake that leads to the destruction of relationships - comparison with other women and criticism. These are the most painful things for any woman.
Not every woman will continue to maintain a relationship after this.
