Psychologist Katerina Buldaeva told what attracts men
As you know, every person in our vast world is unique. There is no other person on Earth like you.
Psychologist Katerina Buldaeva told what attracts men.
Everyone has different values, dreams, desires, plans, goals and ways to achieve them. One person likes pears, another likes tomatoes.
Tastes in relationships between people manifest themselves in a similar way. Some men like blondes, others like brunettes, others like brown-haired women, and so on and so forth.
On an intuitive level, men are attracted to women with round, curvy shapes, because on a subconscious level, the brain receives information that such a woman can bear and give birth to a healthy child, that is, continue the family line.
There is even an interesting geographical pattern: most men living in middle latitudes are attracted to larger breasts.
But men living in South American and African countries are more impressed by wide hips and buttocks.
Naturally, there is no magic formula or drug that a woman can take and that will make her attract men like a magnet.
Beauty parameters, tastes and preferences vary so much that it is simply impossible to be attractive to everyone.
However, there are patterns, by tracking which and taking them into account, you can become attractive to an impressive number of men or to a certain chosen one.
Independence is a common trait among many women today.
Men like the image of a strong woman, and he also gets the excitement of taming such a woman, allowing her to be weak next to him, surprising her with his exploits and actions.
However, there are some peculiarities here. It is not so much a strong woman who attracts, but rather an inaccessible and independent woman.
The ability to take care of yourself. Men can't stand unkempt women who forget about themselves, wear stretched out T-shirts and gather their uncombed hair into a bun in the morning.
It is not necessary to run to the bathroom and put on evening makeup while a man is sleeping, you just need to take care of your appearance, take care of your skin, hair, and wear neat clothes.
The more a woman invests in herself, the higher her self-esteem.
Optimism. A positive attitude towards life, the ability to enjoy every minute and live in the moment energetically charges a man.
He won't want to break up with such a woman. A man is looking for ease, no one goes on dates with the aim of solving someone else's problems.
Have your own hobbies and interests. When a woman has her own hobbies, has girlfriends, has time that she spends well without a man, he wants to please her even more, to make her want to stay with him.
A woman does not seek happiness in a man, she is happy without him. Men especially love it when a woman goes dancing, they even draw an analogy with sex. Any dance is sexual for men.
The ability to forgive and care. You can't be the Snow Queen all the time.
Of course, you can and should be offended if there is a reason for it, talk about your feelings and experiences, set the right boundaries, warn about what actions hurt, but you can’t punish too often or constantly with cold indifference.
A woman is not a teacher with a pointer for her man. The relationship between a man and a woman is always a union, a tandem, a dance of two people who express, and do not suppress and hide their feelings and emotions.
It is important to be able to forgive and care for your partner in a reasonable amount.
Display of reasonable initiative. Women should express their opinion, their position on some topics, events, situations that have occurred.
It is also necessary to be lively, active, offer some options for joint leisure and promote your ideas.
Men like to see a mystery in a woman, to not know something about her, to guess, to assume, to get to know her, in general, or to get to know her from new, previously unknown sides.
When first meeting, bright clothes, a pleasant open smile, lively conversation, eye contact and, of course, gestures that a man watches are very attractive to most men.
A man can be compared to a dog, and a woman to a cat. A dog is simple and understandable, but a cat is a very complex creature, you can't understand what's on her mind.
At the same time, it is unlikely that anyone can compare with her gaze, grace, character and exactingness.
In my psychological practice, I suggest that women choose the image of a cat, as if to climb into its skin and feel this animal organicity.
It may be a lynx, a lioness or a panther – it’s still a cat.
Watch her, take her habits into account, and adopt them when communicating with men. It is unlikely that a man will be able to pass by a lioness.
