Psychologist Evgeniya Zarubina explained what you should never say to men
Men and women are two completely different forms of life.
Psychologist Evgenia Zarubina explained what you should never say to men.
This is what American relationship consultant John Gray claims in his popular book of the same name, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.”
This is true. Although we speak the same language, we experience this world differently.
Some of the familiar female phrases act on a man like a trigger with a nuclear weapon strike zone.
So, the top five phrases that you shouldn’t say to a man:
1. I told you so! In principle, this is where the article can end. A man sees nothing in this phrase except the superiority and dominance of a woman.
Often after this phrase, a man feels crushed. With this statement, you devalue everything that a man has done. And kill the desire to do something new.
Advice: Keep quiet. It's difficult - yes! I myself was sinful (laughing), but it's possible! The man himself realizes that he made a mistake. Don't press on the "sore spot".
2. We need to talk! A man perceives this phrase as the end of the world. And it does not bode well.
To be honest, I perceive this phrase the same way. Advice: rephrase. Zay, (or another animal that lives in your family cat/fish), I want to tell you something.
The man will feel safe and will contact you.
3. Everything is fine (read with intonation and roll your eyes at the same time). Well, everything is fine and fine, the average man will think.
While in a woman, resentment and claims will accumulate, which will burst and fall on a man at the most inopportune moment.
Advice: simple as 2x2. Say directly what is wrong, without phraseological units and complex allegories. If you want your request or desire to be fulfilled and become NORMAL, speak sincerely and without hints.
4. And here is my friend’s husband…. A variation on the theme “mom’s friend’s son”
Advice: stop comparing. The worst thing a woman can do is compare men. We are all different and unique in our own way.
I bet you won't be pleased if a man starts comparing you to Lenka from the second entrance.
5. You are not a man! Excuse me? And who is he now? This is a classic female manipulation.
Advice: one piece of advice. Delete the phrase from your vocabulary. It is humiliating and will bring nothing but mutual insults.
Of course, the list is far from complete. We are all different, so each of us can be affected by something different. Man has been given an amazing ability - the ability to speak. A word can kill or give a person wings.
The outcome depends only on ourselves. And the most important advice for today is to love and support your man.
