Psychologist Nikolai Vinidiktov told how to understand that a man has feelings for you
Today, due to gender attitudes and the transformations taking place in the world, about 30% of potential relationships simply do not develop because there is no understanding of how each partner should manifest themselves in this initial period of communication.
Psychologist Nikolai Vinidiktov told how to understand that a man has feelings for you.
Of course, men and women differ greatly in energy.
As a person who constantly works with couples, helps them understand each other better and find mutual love, I can say that we are all cool, individual, with our own needs, but very different.
If girls are more sensual, emotional, that is, they are more about words, mood, feelings, then men, as a rule, most often express their feelings through certain manifestations.
They do something: initiate communication, write, call, offer something.
But it is important to understand: despite the fact that in the girls' expectations all men are strong, powerful, and trying to win them over. In reality, they are very sensitive about their self-esteem.
That is why in the modern world 8 out of 10 men do not have the persistence that is expected of them. That is why I recommend that girls be very attentive to the manifestations from the male side. Believe me, a man can be decisive in business, but not show himself the way she wants in front of a girl.
Here the main task of the female sex is to show her sensuality and gradually begin to open up to the man. Of course, only if you need it and you want to develop the relationship.
There are many different signs that indicate that you, as a girl, are clearly attractive to a man.
First, pay attention to his body language. For example, active gestures are a sign that it is important for a man to make a good impression on you.
Moreover, it must be said that the more relaxed this gesticulation, the more he wants to open up and show his strength to you. Also, the more relaxed and free his pose, the greater his desire to show, so to speak, his importance, that is, to win your favor.
Another interesting observation that will show how important communication is for a man with you. The position of his feet can help you with this.
So, if, when talking to him, you see that his feet are directed towards you, then this may be a good sign and indicate that he is engrossed in communicating with you. In the case that both feet are pointing away from you, then this, as an option, indicates that he wants to leave or is not too interested, for example, in the topic of conversation.
Another very obvious sign of a man's sympathy for you can, of course, be his gaze and the distance between you.
If he tries to reduce the distance between you, then this may be one of the indicators of interest.
Let's say that when a third person approaches, a man will instinctively move closer to you. And of course, eye contact, the desire to hold it - that is a reliable signal.
Thirdly, if a man asks you personal questions, wants to know more specifically about you, your interests, preferences, aspirations, then this is an indicator that he not only wants to get to know you better, but is also looking for a deeper internal connection.
