Is your romantic relationship getting worse and worse every day? Do you want to break up with your partner?
In this matter, you should rely on your own feelings.
And there are also 5 useful pieces of advice from experts. They will reveal the truth to you – your union has no prospects.
1. You don't plan anything big.
In fact, you don't care about the future. Everyone lives their own life. Everyone is immersed in their own thoughts.
When your romance began, you had hopes, plans, and dreams. Now, in their place is an all-consuming emptiness.
Normal partners accumulate an impressive number of common plans and goals over time. Have you long since given up on joint planning? Then you are not on the same page.
Think for yourself, what should you do with a person who does not see his future next to you? You are on your own, he is on his own. So become a free bird - fly to freedom!
2. Your mutual trust has finally collapsed.
Trust can be lost in an instant. Unfortunately, it is difficult to restore.
Perhaps you have lost faith in your partner over time. Perhaps he or she has stopped trusting you after your sins. Either way, the foundation on which your relationship was built is destroyed.
Soon you will understand that it is impossible to live like this any longer. You will continue to torment each other with complaints and suspicions. What is the point of living with a person you do not trust? You, in turn, will not be able to prove your honesty to him either.
3. Your loved one is no longer the most beautiful person in the world for you.
Previously, you admired the appearance, manners, intelligence and qualities of your loved one.
Now you are increasingly paying attention to other members of the opposite sex. Someone is more muscular than your chosen one, someone is taller, someone is more insightful, someone is more gallant. And as for your partner, he has turned into a sullen grump.
Have you come to this conclusion more than once? And even flirted with other men? Things are bad. It seems that you have finally cooled off towards your other half.
If you don't feel tenderness for your chosen one, then you need to let him go. He is not guilty of anything. It is better to honestly admit everything than to roll down to betrayal and lies. Leave the relationship with a clear conscience and calmly look for the ideal man.
4. You have exhausted all the topics that can be discussed.
In the old days, your conversations had no end and no beginning. You lost track of time in fascinating conversations. You drank tea, coffee and snacked on hot drinks with whatever came to hand. All you wanted was to chat and laugh merrily.
But that doesn't mean you haven't argued. You've certainly! You've had interesting discussions and more than once come to unexpected conclusions.
Sometimes you were just silent. How wonderful it was to do this, cuddling in bed or sitting on the couch under a thick blanket. From now on, mutual silence makes you uncomfortable and increases the tension.
You've buried yourself in the TV (computer, phone) so as not to see your chosen one. He's stopped being your reliable interlocutor. It's not scary. However, over time, you've turned into strangers, forced to cross paths in a shared kitchen.
There is no need to endure and suffer. We need to separate immediately!
5. You essentially don’t care where your partner disappears to, where he stays, and where he goes.
Once upon a time, you would call the phone off the hook if your significant other was late at work. Even 10 minutes of being late was enough to worry you. How you were afraid that your partner was cheating on you. But now everything is different: you may not even notice that your man is missing from home.
If he comes home in the morning, you will, of course, give him a dressing down. But not out of anger or jealousy, but for the sake of decency. You don't love him anymore, that's clear.