How to say no to a child correctly: Notes for parents
Refusing a child is not the easiest task for parents. As a rule, children do not like to be refused and insist on their own, but there are times when refusal is necessary.
The first and most important rule is that the refusal must be justified. The child must understand why you refuse him in a certain situation.
Explain to him that the action he wants to take may be dangerous, harmful, or inappropriate.
The second rule is don't promise what you can't deliver.
If you promised something to your child, but for some reason you cannot fulfill your promise, it is better not to deceive or disappoint the child. Explain to him why you cannot fulfill your promise.
The third rule is to respect the child's decisions. If the child does not want to do or receive something, do not insist on your own. Remember that every person has the right to choose.
The fourth rule is to not make a big deal out of refusal. The child may be upset, but there is no need to make a big deal out of it. However, it is important to know how to refuse in moderation.
And the last, extremely important rule – stay on good terms with your baby. After the refusal, you need to continue communicating and building friendly relationships.
