3 Parenting Phrases That Turn Your Child Into a Loser: Never Say Them

22.03.2024 01:30

In a fit of anger, parents can say something to their child that will cause serious psychological trauma to the child.

We are talking about offensive phrases that create low self-esteem in a child.

A child often takes what mom and dad say seriously. The kid remembers it for a long time and eventually becomes a loser.

How to raise a self-confident person? Even during serious quarrels, never say the following phrases.

"You disgrace me!"

The parent most likely says this for only one purpose: to make the child feel ashamed so that the child stops misbehaving in public.

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There is certainly no desire to humiliate the child and lower his self-esteem.

However, the child may take what the parent said seriously and begin to worry a lot. Such a child may well grow up to be a loser.

"You're boring me!"

Hearing this phrase from the mouth of a mother or father, a child may come to the conclusion that he is simply not needed by his parents.

Because of this, the child may develop complexes.

"Are you stupid?"

A child who is called “stupid” by his own parents will not feel supported and is unlikely to achieve any success.

Earlier we talked about how to properly raise a late child.

Author: Kurchev Anton Deputy Editor-in-Chief

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  1. "You disgrace me!"
  2. "You're boring me!"
  3. "Are you stupid?"